Happy Holidays!

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I hope you have a great holiday season!

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Do you think I’m pretty?

As a single lady, you will struggle with the desire to be thought of as attractive.  In the absence of flowers, compliments, and an endless dating calendar, you will need to find a different metric to measure yourself by.

This struggle is a journey.  Some days it will be hard and some days it will be easier.

My 2 cents…We need to give ourselves a break when it comes to the beauty thing. Overall, I think that we (you and I) are a lot more attractive than we think or feel we are.

In an upcoming post, I’m going to dig a little deeper into what it means to be attractive.

In the meantime, here are some practical tips:

  • Easier said then done, but find your worth in who God says you are.  During those times when I struggle with beauty issues,  I meditate on Psalm 45:11.
  • Consider your influences.  If a magazine, web article, circle of friends, etc. makes you feel less than, you may want to consider cutting those influences out of your life.
  • Accentuate the positive: There’s nothing wrong with finding a signature style that suits your personality, features, and body type.  (If you’re not sure where to start, enlist the help a fashion savvy friend, magazine, blog…)